Dating in french culture
While many on the app will never initiate conversation or will chat for awhile until one of you decides you’re not interested, the ones who want to see you will ask you out.
My friends and I have met many French men through Tinder, and thus have learned a few things about the dating culture as a result: If a Frenchman wants you, you’ll know it.
When the French venture into the American dating scene, they find it warlike, unromantic, a bit slutty, and — above all — highly regimented. — are attempts from Marie-Lyse Paquin writing for rules for the American déïte, as explained by those brave French who have attempted to cross the romantic divide.
“Their highly codified dating game doesn’t leave much space for magic,” complains . I’ve only included observations that I’ve found frequently repeated in French-language news articles and blogs (though I’ve also heard variants of these repeated by people from various parts of the world who have spent time in America), and the standard TP disclaimers apply; as with all cultural observations, they’re not universal descriptions of behavior, and they’re obviously relative to the culture making the observations.
I also studied the French dating customs prior to going abroad, why? After watching one too many Louis Garrell films you start dreaming about your own French guy, admit it.
Another reason why I began studying them was so I could avoid making a silly mistake and accidentally give a guy the wrong idea.
They have various expressions for the act; rouler une pelle — to turn the spatula — is particularly popular. No, wait, all his photos are selfies and he has this one on here twice. However, if they decide they want to meet you in person, they’ll make a move. On a few of my dates, I had trouble reading the mind of the man sitting across from me. I’ve met guys in bars as well and once was approached on the metro.They needed everything to be explicit” — in terms of whether or not an outing was officially a date.Americans are thus obliged to officially ask each other out, and the first date is often for a drink and to make small talk.